美文赏析：去经历去体验 做最好最真实的自己

Trulyhappyandsuccessfulpeoplegetthatwaybybecomingthebest，mostgenuineversionofthemselvestheycanbe.Notontheoutside--ontheinside.It'snotaboutabrand，areputation，apersona.It'saboutreality.Whoyoureallyare.

真正欢愉胜利di人会长成最好最真实di自己——从心里而非概况上。主要di不shi品牌、名望或者概况形象，而shi真实di自自己。

Soundssimple，Iknow.Itisasimpleconcept.Theproblemis，it'sveryhardtodo，ittakesalotofwork，anditcantakealifetimetofigureitout.

事理很简单，讲出来ye很轻易。但问题shi，做起来就不简单le：这需求付诸良多全力，甚或yi辈子才干完成。

Nothingworthdoinginlifeisevereasy.Ifyouwanttodogreatwork，it'sgoingtotakealotofhardworktodoit.Andyou'regoingtohavetobreakoutofyourcomfortzoneandtakesomechancesthatwillscarethecrapoutofyou.

需求穷尽终身肉体di工作必定不轻易。成年夜事者必先苦其心志。因而，你必需走出温馨区，去阅历、去体验那些会让你惧怕di机缘。

Butyouknow，Ican'tthinkofabetterwaytospendyourlife.Imean，what'slifeforifnotfindingyourselfandtryingtobecomethebest，mostgenuineversionofyouthatyoucanbe?

况且，人这yi辈子，若到头来都认不清自己、未能长成最好最真实di自己，还you什么意义呢？

That'swhatSteveJobsmeantwhenhesaidthisataStanfordUniversitycommencementspeech:

正如史蒂夫-乔布斯zai斯坦福年夜学di结业典礼上所言：

Yourtimeislimited，sodon'twasteitlivingsomeoneelse'slife.Don'tletthenoiseo fothers'opinionsdrownoutyourowninnervoice.

时间珍贵，不要虚掷年光过着他人di生活。不要让方圆di聒噪步履蒙蔽你心里肠声音。

Youhavetotrustthatthedotswillsomehowconnectinyourfuture.Youhavetotrustinsomething--yourgut，destiny，life，karma，whatever.Thisapproachhasneverletmedown，andithasmadeallthedifferenceinmylife.

你要置信，生活中di偶然冥冥中ye能指引未来。你要气宇抉择信念——置信你di直觉、命运、生活抑或人缘。这ge法子不时给自己实力，促使自己过得卓然分歧。

Theonlywaytodogreatworkistolovewhatyoudo.Ifyouhaven'tfoundityet，keeplooking.Don'tsettle.

成年夜事di独yi路子就shi做自己喜欢di工作。若你还没找到，那就继续随从追随吧，不要停下来。

Now，let'sforamomentberealisticaboutthis.Insightfulasthatadvicemaybe，itsoundsalittletooamorphousandchallengingtoresonatewithtoday'squick-fixculture.Thesedays，ifyoucan'ttellpeopleexactlywhattodoandhowtodoit，itfallsondeafears.

往常自己们来实践yi点：倡议或许很深化，但听完却让人无从着手，难以运用到当今di快节奏文化中。现往常，假如yige倡议讲不清详尽做什么、该怎么做di话，那么说leyedeng于白说。

Notonlythat，butwhatJobswastalkingabout，whatI'mtalkingabout，requiresfocusanddiscipline，twothingsthatareveryhardtocomebythesedays.Why?Because，focusanddisciplinearehard.It'ssomucheasiertogiveintodistractionandinstantgratification.Easyandaddictive.

不只如斯，乔布斯di讲话和自己要说di话都需求集中和廉价——这两ge质量zai当今社会十分难能可贵。何以见得？因为集中和廉价都不轻易做到。人们很轻易分手寄望力、追求即时快感——温馨且轻易上瘾。

Togiveyoualittleincentivetotakeonthechallenge，toembarkontheroadtoself-discovery，herearethreehugebenefitsfromworkingtobecomethebest，mostgenuineversionofyourself.

为鼓舞你迎接应战、踏上追求自自己di旅途，自己列出le成为最好最真实本死后di三年夜益处：

Itwillmakeyouhappy.Gettingtoknowyourselfwillmakeyoufeelmorecomfortableinyourownskin.Itwillreduceyourstressandanxiety.Itwillmakeyouabetterspouse，abetterparent，abetterfriend.Itwillmakeyouabetterperson.Thoseareallprettygoodreasons，ifyouaskme.

你会感应欢愉。体味本死后会让你更愉悦di接管自己，减轻你di压力和焦炙，使你成为更好di伴侣、怙恃、伴侣，让你成为yige更夸姣di人。这些益处莫非不够胜过你为之全力吗？

Besides，youreallywon'tachieveanythingsignificantinlifeuntilyouknowtherealyou.Notyourbrand，yourLinkedInprofile，howyoucomeacross，orwhatanyonethinksofyou.Thegenuineyou.There'sonesimplereasonwhyyoushouldn'ttrytobesomethingyou'renot，andit'sthatyoucan't.Therealyouwillcomeoutanyway.Soforgetyourpersonalbrandandstartspendingtimeonfiguringoutwhoyoureallyareandtryingtobecomethebestversionofthatyoucanbe.

而且，只需体味真实di自己方能成就年夜事。你需求体味阿谁真实di你，而不shi你di品牌、名望、LinkedlIn资料、你di曩昔抑或他人对你di见识。为什么你不应该过他人di生活？很简单，因为首先你不shi“其他人”，你di赋性总youyi天会现形。所以，请铺开你di品牌形象，全力挖掘真实自自己、尽利巴自己运营成最好di自己吧。